Or both?

Seriously, dude, I just clicked on the the "Karl Marrx" link embeded in your user name, and woah.

I don't know whether to be more annoyed by your really idiotic attempts to duplicate African-American/Black dialect (which, btw, is astonshingly flexible and elegant when used by a native speaker) or you racist idiocy.

And then to hitch it to queer issues?

Is your linked post more stupid or more offensive? I am honestly on the horns of a dilemma.

<i>I don't get guys, they don't understand women, it's hard to be straight.</i>

I'm not sure, quite, where to begin with this. If it's "hard," maybe you're doing it wrong? Or maybe, you shouldn't be doing it at all?

On the other hand, it's not like it's easy to be queer, either.

So maybe, what we should all try to do is be grownups. Be honest, be true to ourselves and our loved ones, and be real. Stop trying to be something we aren't, stop pretending, and start being true adult human beings with flaws and foibles and problems and the unfathomable miraculous ability to love and be loved.

And that's just hard all around, but worth it.